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Miranda Kerr |
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Top Model Gisele Bundchen |
As you all know I am a breastfeeding advocate so all my kids
were breastfed. Enzo and Marko were exclusively breastfed until 6 months, and
from then on, they were mixed fed with
formula milk. Since they could eat solids already, I figured it would be okay
to give them formula milk while still being breastfed. But as I was able to
attend several pregnancy talks (due to Urban Essentials either being a sponsor
or an exhibitor in the event), I found out that babies have actually no need
for any formula milk ever! That is why my youngest, Javi, is still exclusively
breastfed even at age 1 and I am not planning to let him have a taste of
formula milk. There are still people who argue that feeding formula milk is not
harmful to the baby’s health. Formula milk has been fed to babies since before
I was born! Even I was given formula milk when I was a baby and I am alive! They
actually have a point. What has changed now that led some moms to believe that
formula feeding is not good for babies? The answer is education and awareness.
When I was a kid, most of the breastfeeding moms that I saw were the ones whom
I sat beside in the jeep, moms who are in the streets, moms who had not enough
money to buy formula milk. The rich parents before were the ones who fed their
babies formula milk. The more expensive the better because paying more could
mean providing more nutrition to their baby. These days, everything has
reversed. The breastfeeding moms are the
sosyal ones, the ones who could afford to buy formula milk but prefer to
breastfeed their babies in style, the celebrities, the bloggers, the famous
ones, etc. The mothers who don’t have enough money, they are the ones who work
to death to be able to buy formula milk for their babies. What the heck
happened? More and more moms are becoming aware and educated of not the just
importance of breastfeeding but also of the harmful effects formula feeding can
have on their babies. They even pay to attend breastfeeding seminars and lay
forums. So you see, this is the reason why the ones who are well-off are
usually the ones who are breastfeeding because they are the ones who get the
proper education. When I was pregnant with Enzo and Marko, I never attended
such seminars because I never entertained the idea that it would be difficult
for me to breastfeed. I just researched online so I’d know what to expect.
Breastfeeding is the most natural thing in the world. Nakaka conscious lang sa
simula because someone is continuously sucking on your breasts! But ones you
get the hang of it, dere derecho na lang! I am thankful that I never had any
problem with breastfeeding and that all my babies never had a problem with
sucking my breasts. But I wish I knew then that I did not need to feed my
babies formula milk even after 6 months. Kaya education is really important. Everyone
knows that breastfeeding is best feeding. What we need to be more aware of is
do babies need formula milk at some point in their lives? Does formula feeding
have bad effects on my baby’s health? Is mixed feeding okay? Does formula
feeding have an effect on my toddler’s appetite and eating habits? Is milk
necessary for my kids’ bone formation?
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Olivia Wilde |
I wish I never gave Enzo and Marko formula milk beyond 6
months. They became dependent on their formula milk for quite some time
especially Marko. Until now, he does not eat properly. He only wants his milk
and he is already turning 4 this September. He stopped eating properly almost 2
years ago. Now, he only eats the following from time to time: Oreo, Jollibee Chickenjoy, cheese pizza, plain noodles from a Chinese
restaurant, mamon and dutchmill. That’s why for a few months already, I tried
to lessen his milk intake. And he would cry ever so loudly demanding for his
milk. Medyo nasanay naman sya ngayon na konting milk na lang ang iniinom in 1
day but he still does not eat. I blame this all to formula milk! I also
consulted his pedia immediately after he stopped eating and I was assured that
it’s okay for him not to eat as long as he drinks his milk. I believed her for
a while, because Makoy really looks healthy. He is even heavier and chubbier
than Enzo (who thankfully has a good appetite). Pero hindi ako palagay because
he may look healthy on the outside but this diet might cause a health problem
in the future.
So, my point is, education is really the key. Mothers need
to be educated on not only the benefits of breastfeeding but also the adverse
effects of formula feeding. It’s a good thing that more and more hospitals are
encouraging their postpartum patients to exclusively breastfeed and that these
hospitals conduct free pregnancy seminars for their patients, which moms and dads need
to take advantage of since most of the time it’s free. It also helps that even
celebrity moms and models post their photos to show that they are also
breastfeeding advocates. It encourages and inspires moms to do the same. It also lets moms know that there is nothing to be ashamed of when you breastfeed in public. It's actually cool when you do! I breastfeed anywhere and I don't even use a cover up!
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Yummy :) |
There are several groups that conduct breastfeeding seminars
and promote awareness and such as the
Medela Moms and Breastfeeding Pinays in Facebook. You might want to check them
out J
New Manila, QC
Breastmilk is indeed best for babies! I do honor fellow mommies who exclusively breastfeed their children even with their super busy schedules. I also EBF my son for 1 year. It was a good thing that I have a good friend who is really a breastfeeding advocate so we had a private "seminar" with her when I was still pregnant. It prepared us for the challenges that we faced later on. It sure is great to have more seminars for these available to the public! :)
ReplyDeleteI only breastfed my son for 2 months and if ever I will have another child, I will try my best to breastfeed beyond 6 months. :)
ReplyDeleteBreastfeeding and motherhood came naturally for me too, but it isn't the same for everyone. I have friends who were frustrated at their attempts to breastfeed...and had to attend seminars and be coached in this are.
ReplyDeleteI can't do what you do though, I've always used those cute mom cover-ups when I breastfed at the malls, in church or in restos but believe you me, I'm always relieved when I didn't have to do so at home or in our car. :)
You are correct, women should be educated. Happy breastfeeding to you, gorgeous mom!
ReplyDeleteI agree. Proper education is really the key. Moms now have easier access to information, which was not the case almost 13 years ago when I gave birth to my eldest.
ReplyDeleteI hope I could breastfeed exclusively also when I have another baby.
ReplyDeleteI agree, I had the trouble with being miseducated about breastfeeding in my first baby because I thought it was an easy task. I hope I will be able to breastfeed on my next baby.:)
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